I caught an STD :( Help.?

Unfortunately that law only applies to HIV/AIDS. And that's what sucks about herpes is that even with condoms it can still spread. And it's different for everyone afflicted by it. They say that herpes can only spread when the person has an outbreak but there have been several studies down that have proven it to spread even while no symptoms are present. But you probably know most of this by now. Fortunately there is medication that can keep outbreaks away or shorten their run. And eventually you'll have fewer and fewer outbreaks. You will definitely find another man who is understanding and will love you unconditionally. But for now just focus on yourself. Your ex sucks, but karma will get him.