Guys/Gals do you think its weird for a guy to shave his armpits?

some big black dude said that i need shave my armpits. he saw cuz i was playin bball in my wifebeater/tank top. i just think its a lil feminine. i kinda trimmed them but i think the armpit hair kinda defines some of my masculine features cuz im not very buff i'm just tall and lean